Romans 12:1,2 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service.  And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may pove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.

Colossians 1:9 For this reason we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you, and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding.

Some have reduced themselves to thinking that the will of God is,

coerced will brought about by years of parental guidance, brainwashing of the Christian culture,

bashing of ones views or actions,

hate on another group way of life,

factiousness,

not for this time (outdated),

one way of thinking but there are other ways.

Some have even convienced themselves that the will of God is not how we should be conformed too.  Some have let their own desires out weight Gods will, in their mind, some have said it is fake and they revert back or stay in their own sinful state. 

Renewing ourselves with the will of God is a must, and praying that God allows us to overcome our will is a must.